In short, pretty much everything. To expand on that succinct answer though, I hate the rush, the time frame, the cynical kabuki performed by the GOP, the timid hemming and hawing around the veracity of the women’s claims despite the abuse and harassment that they already have received, and will likely continue to for the rest of their lives, regardless of the outcome of this confirmation hearing. I hate that we are retreading the same history in the same predictable way, and that only just now, with The New Yorker article published by Ronan Farrow, revealing a second person claiming that Kavanaugh sexually abused her, does there seem to be any genuine attempt to do more than simply pacify Democrats, suggesting that they have at least “followed the proper process”. This however, is nothing but a sham, each time a development occurs, they move the next step back the minimum they feasibly can, still not giving enough time for an investigation to occur, but saying that they are being generous with their deadline extensions.
There is a double standard that is blatantly obvious between the two parties, with Democrats screaming about the process, and the GOP putting their collective fingers in their ears. It’s so discouraging to know that we are having the same kind of fight about the same thing, in the same situation. History has managed to repeat itself, but with a TV-drama twist of throwing in an additional accuser into the mix, just before the climax. At this point, we should be better. What should happen? Well, the right thing to do, the just thing, would be to perform an investigation, and then, once the investigation reveals its report, a hearing would be called, with Kavanaugh, along with the list of accusers and witnesses to testify. It’s absolutely appalling though that has yet to occur, when it seems like the correct thing to do.
Instead though, Republicans have decided to tip their hand heavily, showing their intense fear of losing the majority in the House, and the Senate within reaching distance, by trying to shove this nomination through as soon as possible, instead of doing the process slower, and more under the radar. Releasing all of the Kavanaugh documents early, and performing the due diligence earlier, and setting a confirmation date just a few weeks out, the whole proceeding may have even been able to slide through relatively unobstructed (though it does seem as though there may still have been problems from some of his documents), it could have dispersed the scrutiny through a number of news cycles, but like everything these days, it seems that even this is now flashy and dramatic, full of twists and turns every few hours it seems.
Finally, I hate the way the women are treated about this topic in general. People act as though women do this to seek attention, or at least, that is the narrative painted by the political right. Of course, women know that they’ll receive an inordinate amount of harassment for a claim like this, and subject themselves to potentially being the butt of jokes for decades to come. Death threats, harassment, for coming forward with their experiences. Some news organizations also give far too much credence and airtime to those who would so demean someone as to insult their experience.
Of course, now with a second accuser, things change, at least a little bit, but will it be enough to block the nomination? According to a number of GOP senators, simply, no. The hearing is a formality, but their minds are made up. It’s appalling on a number of levels, from how cynical it is, to the ignorance of refusing to change your mind regardless of evidence presented. The right has become ravenous to maintain their position of power, and, like an animal backed into a corner, they are lashing out, doing what they can to survive the outrage on the left.